Efforts
Hey people! I know it’s been so long since I have written any blog post. A few events that I encountered in my life made it inevitable for me to write this post. When I first fell in love (it was long ago by the way), it was strange and so new to me. I started to experience the world so differently (including the butterflies in my stomach). All the care, checking up, hours and hours of stalking, considering her feelings every step of the way, ensuring I’m available every minute, surprising her with everything that she loves, making her feel immensely special, taking care of her when she’s sick, being the best company that she could ever have. She thanked me telling me that I’ve been putting a lot of efforts lately and that it requires a lot of patience as well as time. I didn’t understand why she was calling them “efforts” back then. Everything that I encountered this lockdown made me realise that efforts are so very important. In a relationship, the beginnings are always g...